As an asylum seeker is it possible to formalise my marriage in South Africa ?


The short answer
You might need legal assistance
The whole question
I’ve lived in South Africa for six years and I've had the same asylum seeker's issue for several years. When I arrived, I applied for a study permit and paid half of my tuition fee before the start of the semester. I did this before submitting my application to Home Affairs for an asylum seekers permit. After six months, I was informed that my application was unsuccessful, stating that I had insufficient funds to study. Since Home Affairs couldn’t give me a study permit, I was unable to complete my studies. That’s when I applied for an asylum seekers permit, which I’ve been renewing since.
I also got married in 2017 and since then, my wife and I have been trying to formalise our marriage, but it’s been from pillar to post. The refugee centre told us to go to Home Affairs, but every Home Affairs office I’ve visited has been unable to help us. They informed us that if we plan on getting anything, such as property, it would be unsuccessful because we are not legally married. When our son was born, the hospital refused to put my name on his birth certificate because I have an asylum seekers permit. I don't want my children to experience such difficulties in the future and I want my family to live a normal life. What can I do to formalise my marriage?
The long answer
Many asylum seekers have faced the same difficulties in formalising their marriages.
This is the story behind it:
In 2017 Home Affairs officials said that according to a recent circular they were not allowed to marry asylum seekers whose applications for asylum had not yet been finalised.
A couple who had been waiting for five years to formalise their marriage then took Home Affairs to court. The Eastern Cape Division High Court found that the Home Affairs circular undermined the fundamental right to equality and that it was therefore unconstitutional. The court ordered that the couple should be allowed to marry.
But Home Affairs appealed the judgement and took it to the Supreme Court of Appeal.